Episode 42

Butter But No Spatula

I’ve lived in Mexico City for a couple weeks now, and I’m in that weird in-between place where some things feel easy and others still make no sense at all. But the weather is perfect, the garbage truck rings a bell. and there's a guy on a bike with a whistle who will sharpen your knives. And I'm going to stop reading the news, because knowledge isn't power and none of it makes sense anyway.

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Transcript
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This is episode 42 of onefjef Douglas Adams picked 42 as the answer to

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life, the universe and everything precisely because it was boring, and

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yet it keeps showing up uninvited.

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It appears in cosmological critical density calculations

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as though the math is in on the.

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Louis Carroll loved it enough to put it in Alice in Wonderland as a rule

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that banishes anyone over a mile high from court and in Japan and China.

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It sounds like the words for to death, which when you consider it's also the

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answer to everything feels less like a coincidence and more like a punchline.

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The universe has been sitting on for a very long time.

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Hello, my friends.

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Hello again.

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How is everybody doing?

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Are you doing well?

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I hope you're doing well.

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I hope you're thriving.

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As always, thriving is a word that I enjoy.

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I actually released this week's episode to my patron subscribers last week.

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As the first episode of this new series that I am calling CDMX dispatch,

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which is just Mexico City Dispatch.

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CDMX is a abbreviation for Mexico City.

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I was going to just make it a series for my Patreon subscribers, but I made

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all new cover art and came up with a title for the series, so I feel like

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I should release them to the public.

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So what I'm going to do is I'm going to release them to the

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patron subscribers a week early.

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And then the public will be getting them the week after.

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So that's what this week's episode's going to be.

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It's going to be a very short glimpse into my experience of life here in

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Mexico City, my first couple weeks here.

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The weird things, the different things, the confusing things, all the things.

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And I plan to release one of these every week.

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To my patron subscribers who've already listened to this episode.

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I apologize, but you are getting a new intro, so that's exciting maybe.

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Anyway, the point being is if you would like to hear these new CDMX

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dispatch episodes the week that they are happening in real time, if you will.

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Go to patreon.com/onefjef and sign up for as little as $5 a month.

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I would really appreciate it.

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I am trying to add new and exciting content to that Patreon subscription to

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make it more appealing to people because I haven't gotten a new subscriber for

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quite some time, and I would really like to get some new subscribers.

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So.

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Please do go patreon.com/onefjef and sign up.

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I would tell you what happened today in my life, but that would be

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going in this week's episode of CDMX dispatch, so I can't, I can't do that.

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Uh, I'm confusing myself and that's not good as always and forever.

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Thank you for listening.

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Thank you for being here.

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Here is episode one of CDMX Dispatch from last week.

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I am in Mexico City.

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It rained today.

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It was like a thunderstorm.

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It was amazing.

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Mexico City does good thunderstorms.

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I'm gonna learn that or I did learn that today.

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And uh, I'm here for it.

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I love a good thunderstorm.

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I'm sure that during the rainy season I will get tired of the rain, but

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for now it was pretty sweet too.

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Hear the thunder.

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I think it's thundery because it maybe that goes off the mountains.

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'cause we're kind of surrounded by mountains here.

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Anyway, that was pretty cool.

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What else?

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Yeah, I mean, I suppose I'm settling in.

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I still need to fill my refrigerator with more things.

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I Eating is still kind of a struggle as it is in foreign countries when you

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don't speak the language and don't really know where to go and so forth and so on.

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I'm getting better at it, but.

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I need to find some cheap, cheap taco stands nearby my place.

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Listen to that.

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Mexico City kick ass cars outside.

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Um,

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but yeah, I mean, I have butter now, so that's exciting.

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But I don't have if a spatula, so I have to get a spatula tomorrow.

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It's the small things that this place doesn't have.

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I still love the apartment, but there's just like random things

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that you're like, well, why do we have five pans and no spatula?

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Hmm.

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It's fine.

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I learned about garbage and how garbage is handled here in Mexico City.

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You know, in the United States, generally speaking, you have like one day a week or

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two days a week when the garbage people come and take your garbage cans away.

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You put the garbage cans out, they take them away, et cetera, et cetera.

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In New York City, this causes a lot of rats because people just

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put their garbage outside and it sits outside and the rats come.

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And honestly, there is a lot of garbage everywhere in New York

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City, and I hadn't even noticed it

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in all the times I've been here in Mexico City.

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And I'm sure maybe it's different in some of the other neighborhoods

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because I am in, you know, somewhat bougie neighborhoods.

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But.

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There's no garbage, and the streets are very clean.

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And I think it's in part because, you know, I'll often see people taking care

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of their particular area of the block, like storekeepers and so forth, which

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I find very charming and wonderful.

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But also because of the way the garbage is collected, you'll hear these trucks go

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by ringing a bell sometimes, once a day, sometimes twice a day, however often.

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I don't know.

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I haven't been here long enough to know how often they come

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by, but I have heard them.

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And when you hear the bell of the garbage people, you take your garbage out and

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then you give the garbage people, I don't know, five or 10 pesos, 25, 50 cents,

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whatever, and they take your garbage away.

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And so there's no garbage sitting on the street corner waiting to

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be picked up because the garbage men take it away immediately.

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And so you don't see as many rats.

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I mean, you see some rats of course, but not nearly as many,

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so that's interesting.

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It's always interesting, these things that are different from country to country,

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and there's so many strange things like that, like all the different,

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I think there are holdovers from older times, but you know,

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there's a guy who rides a bike around and he plays this whistle.

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And he is the knife sharpener, and you just know that that whistle

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sound is the knife sharpener guy, and he's got like a knife sharpening

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thing on the back of his bike.

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So you just like go out there, bring your knives and he

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sharpens your knives for you.

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You know, there's the comte man, the guy with the sweet potatoes, all sorts of

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different things that seem like holdovers to an older time, but also feel charming

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in today's Mexico City, to me anyway.

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In my first or second week here.

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You know, eventually these noises are gonna start to get on my nerves at some

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point, but for now, I'm finding them charming and I'm leaning into that.

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The weather here, it really has been stellar.

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It's basically between like 70 and 80 degrees every day at night.

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It goes down to maybe 60, 65.

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Mostly sunny, usually, sometimes some clouds.

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Again, they get rain today and there's just green everywhere, you know?

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I just love it.

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I went to this strange poker game on Friday that I'll tell you about,

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but there was a guy there from New Orleans, a professor who was an artist

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who was here researching some specific indigenous fabrics of some sort.

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Interesting guy.

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Before the game started, we were chatting in.

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He said, you know, it kind of reminds me of New Orleans here

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and I had been thinking that.

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It kind of reminded me of Savannah, Georgia, which has similarities to

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New Orleans and yeah, it really does.

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The more I think about it and the more I walk around, especially at night, you

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know, the way the trees on some streets, the way the trees like completely cover

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the street and block the streetlights and.

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Give it kind of a very gothic, picky vibe in some places.

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Yeah, definitely get a Savannah Georgia vibe or a New Orleans vibe and also just

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the greenery, you know, all the greenery.

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Anyway, the poker game, I found this poker game on Facebook.

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It's one of these expat groups.

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This guy said he was having a poker game.

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He has it every Friday or something like that.

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So I messaged him and said, Hey, I'm interested, you know,

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'cause I used to have a poker game of course, in Columbus and.

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I realized that this game was gonna be different than my game in Columbus.

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Of course, I knew it wasn't gonna be the same.

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Of course, they're not gonna have a fog machine.

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I thought it might be social.

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You know, I thought it might be a place for me to meet friends, but it

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was a, you know, a serious poker game.

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The stakes weren't terrifically high.

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I mean, it was like a $50, a thousand peso buy-in.

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These people were intense poker players at the beginning

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when everybody was showing up.

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There was talking and joking around, but as soon as the game started, people

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were just pretty much playing poker and there was, you know, a specific dealer,

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a professional dealer, and we were playing out on a professional table and

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there was even like a woman who walked around with free drinks and snacks if

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you wanted them and so forth and so on.

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Yeah.

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Uh, it was not like my game in Columbus at all.

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Uh, not even a little bit.

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I mean, aside from the fact that we were using playing cards and playing the same

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game, but I mean at one point I paused for like 20 or 30 seconds thinking about

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my bet and somebody was like, do you always pause that long before you bet?

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And I felt like I was being called out for just thinking about my bet.

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'cause it was fast, you know?

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Anyway.

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It was definitely interesting.

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I lost about a hundred dollars and I'm not happy about that at all because I

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don't have a ton of money right now.

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But I'll chalk it up to experience because it wasn't experience for sure,

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and I wanted to get the new guy from New Orleans, that professor, artist guy.

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I wanted to get his number before he left, but he lost all of his money

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twice 'cause he bought in again.

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He lost all his money twice and then left without.

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Much fanfare.

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So the big winner was this French guy at the end of the table who had

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a, I mean, he must have had 10,000.

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20,000 pesos in front of him.

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Yeah, he was doing well.

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I was up for a while, but then I made some terrible bets and at a certain point

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I just wanted to leave and I thought about just cashing out with the chips

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that I had left, but nobody was doing that, and I didn't wanna break protocol.

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I thought, all right, well I'll just call this a wash and then I'll go all in on

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a game that maybe I might not win on.

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And I did and I lost and I left 'cause I was tired.

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I wanted to go home.

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But you know, it was an experience.

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It was,

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I think I'm gonna start going to pickleball, community

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Pickleball games here.

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There's like a group of.

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There's a bunch of groups of people who play pickleball like every

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single day at a court right near me.

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So I might start checking that out.

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And I think the yoga mat I ordered arrived at the place

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that I have to go pick it up at.

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So I'll probably go there tomorrow and pick that up and start going to yoga.

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And that'll feel good because I think my body's starting to acclimate.

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You know, last night before I went to bed, I was looking into, well,

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I was asking, you know, AI about.

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The effects of the body and how you adjust to living at 7,500 feet or so,

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whatever it is here, you start producing more red blood cells to adjust to this.

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And I was like, well, how does that affect the body producing more red blood cells?

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And it apparently makes the blood thicker because you're

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producing more red blood cells.

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And so clotting, I guess, is more of an issue, but not a big one.

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But really not a lot of bad.

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I always thought that there'd be a trade off.

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You know, your body's producing more red blood cells, so it's

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producing less of something else, but apparently that's not the case.

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It's just adjusting to the altitude and it also checks out because I

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have been sleeping pretty well, not great, but I appetite has been

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low, and my energy has been weird.

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It's getting better, but.

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Apparently it takes two to four weeks, five weeks to really adjust.

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So, so, yeah.

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But it is a thing for sure.

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'cause it's like a mile and a half up, you know?

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That's a hike.

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That's a hike.

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And I did get one air purifier from Amazon, but I'm not happy with it.

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So I am returning it and getting a better one.

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I don't know if it'll make much of a difference.

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It's an Amazon basic air purifier and.

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I don't know why I don't trust it to be purifying the air well, but I don't, so

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I'm returning it and getting a better one because I feel like air quality in

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my apartment is one of the more important things for my life here to be good

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and comfortable in all those things.

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You know, I have been reading the news to my chagrin and.

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I am really thinking about not doing that anymore.

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When I was here a year ago, I kind of did that.

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I kind of 'cause it, it, it was a different time 'cause it was like right

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after he'd gotten inaugurated again.

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But I feel like I look at the New York Times and it's kind of the same version

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of the same story like every day now.

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And I don't mean to trivialize it in that way.

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But it kind of does, right?

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It seems like just, oh, war continues, more people dying,

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bombs, et cetera, et cetera.

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And again, it's not affecting me.

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I mean, gas prices, okay, airline tickets are more expensive.

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But I did reach out to my friend from New York.

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I had a friend in New York that I met at Sundance, Saba, who is

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Iranian, and her family's from Tehran.

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I just reached out to her to find out if she was all right and she got back

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to me and said she is in Copenhagen, but her family is all still in Tehran,

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and I don't know, that's gotta be hard.

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I mean, I would want to get my family out of there because I don't know,

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it feels like nuclear weapons are not

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out of the picture here.

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And I don't know how that plays out, but I'm glad I'm in Mexico

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because I don't feel like Mexico is a prime target for anything really.

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But my friend is.

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Okay.

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And that's good.

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That's good to know.

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But yeah, I, maybe I'll just delete the New York Times app.

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Maybe I'll delete.

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All the news apps and just stop paying attention to that shit because it does

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take up brain space and I don't need that.

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What good does it do me to know what's going on, what horrible

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things are going on in the world now?

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I mean, of course it's disaster porn.

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It's, you know, catastrophe porn, whatever it is, it's hard to look away, right?

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It's like the sore tooth.

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You can't stop touching it with your tongue, but it can't be

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good for you mentally to be processing all of this darkness.

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Right on a daily basis.

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And I don't really get anxious about it or, or angry really occasionally.

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But I do understand that that anger and anxiety doesn't do any good.

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It doesn't change anything.

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It doesn't fix anything.

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It just affects my mental health and I just don't need that.

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I wanna use that brain space for something else.

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I wanna make music or.

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Make more podcasts or whatever it is, look for a fucking job.

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You know, all these things that this toxic, toxic news

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is distracting me from.

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And, and even then, I still won't know if it's true.

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I mean, I do know the mainstream media is full of shit for the most part.

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I mean, of course they're right on some things, but the fact that

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there's some rah rying going on.

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On these mainstream media channels, like pro-war stuff?

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No, absolutely not.

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Absolutely not.

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Although I suppose you have to toe the party line and the party

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is the United States, so, and you gotta make the dear leader happy.

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So I guess you have to rah rah the war somewhat just so you can

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appease the dear leader and not lose your license or get whatever.

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It's such a fucking cloud of darkness over this world right now.

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And I don't wanna sit in that dark cloud of darkness.

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I wanna,

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I wanna sit outside of that cloud of darkness because you can, you don't

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have to sit in that cloud of darkness.

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You can choose to sit outside of it, and I guess it's probably harder in

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the United States to sit outside of it because it's kind of all around you there.

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But.

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I am in Mexico City and it's very easy for me to just sit outside of that cloud.

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All I gotta do is stop opening the damn New York Times app or whatever it is.

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Uh, there's some more thunder.

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I think we're gonna get another storm here.

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I hope it's a quick one.

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I gotta go for a walk.

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And I do realize that a lot of people are being affected directly

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by what's going on in the world.

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Is it more acute now?

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Yes, of course.

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It's more acute now, but that doesn't mean that you paying attention is

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going to make it better at all.

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Right.

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It's just gonna make it worse.

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Well, no, it's not gonna make it worse.

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It's just gonna make you worse.

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It's gonna give you anxiety, probably.

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It's gonna give you anger, whatever it is, fear, all the emotions

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that, that I think this government wants you to have, frankly.

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I mean, I think it's them winning, you know?

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And then people would say, so you just want to give up.

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You just wanna throw your hands up in the air and say whatever's

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gonna happen is gonna happen.

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What do you suggest?

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Name something that you would do, that you would suggest that I do that's

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actually gonna make a difference in what's going on right now.

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I'll wait.

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No.

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Call your Congress person, please.

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I gimme a break.

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If it makes you feel better, great.

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But I guarantee that the congressperson is not changing his votes.

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Based on the number of phone calls he's getting about a

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particular issue, the fix is in.

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My friends, the fix has been in for years.

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Our government has been captured by money,

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and I don't think that there's anything that you or I or

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anyone can really do about it.

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Yeah, I realize that there's shining lights of sorts out

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there, your James Telecos, your Bernie Sanders, and so forth.

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But these people are few and far between.

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Most of the politicians have been completely captured by money,

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or at least partially captured.

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And when money controls the system, we don't live in a democracy.

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We haven't lived into democracy for years though, because money's

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been controlling the system for probably as long as I've been alive.

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To different degrees, to increasing degrees as I've gotten older,

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whereas now it's completely controlled outwardly, openly.

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The bribery is now just like part of the thing.

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Yeah, things are as bad as they have been, I think in my lifetime.

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For sure.

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This is in a way the inevitable outcome of the last 50 years of neoliberalism.

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When you put a dollar sign on everything, then of course the government's

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going to become corrupted by money.

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Anyway, I wish I had answers, but I don't.

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The only answers I have are to do something in your community

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that'll make you feel better and help the community around you.

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It'll have a direct impact on the world that you exist in, because

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trying to affect the global politics, national politics, all of that, I just

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don't think that there is a way to do that that is going to be effective.

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But if you disagree, I'm happy to hear your, your rebuttal, your, your solution.

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Should we email onefjefpod@gmail.com or leave a comment on

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this post in the Patreon?

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I'd love to have a dialogue.

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Anyway, enough about that.

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I'm gonna go over to a friend's place and play some music tonight,

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so maybe I'll just wrap this up.

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Maybe I'll just call this the first one.

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25 minutes.

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That's pretty good.

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Thank you Patreon subscribers for sticking with me.

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Continuing to support the podcast.

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I really do appreciate it and please do tell your friends and family to

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listen to the podcast and per perhaps support it because still this is my,

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my source of income, which isn't a lot.

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I'm trying to figure out ways to increase that source of income from

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this, because really the dream is to make a living off of this thing,

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which is a difficult dream to achieve.

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I believe, I believe in the meantime, although I do have to get some, some roar.

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But yes, thank you very much.

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I hope you're all doing very well and if you have any comments about anything

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in this podcast or about anything you've heard, please just leave a comment in

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the um, comment section on this post and maybe we can start a dialogue

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because I'd love to hear from you.

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Until then, thanks be well.

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I hope you're thriving.

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Continue to thrive.

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Put your phone down.

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Put your phone down.

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Very good, Jeffrey.

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Jef Taylor is an editor, filmmaker, and reluctant grown-up. He hosts onefjef, where he talks to people (and sometimes himself) about work, purpose, and the strange ways life unfolds. Before podcasting, he spent years shaping other people’s stories—now he’s telling his own.